Patterns

The person who adored you now seems to believe you are dangerous. It feels deeply personal. It is also remarkably predictable. What changes when you stop asking why they are doing this to you, and start asking what comes next?

Patterns

Why Are You Suddenly the Villain?

A year ago you were the best thing that ever happened to them. On the pedestal, the drop, and why it is so predictable.

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Patterns · Communication

Should You Tell Them What Is Wrong With Them?

You have found the word that explains everything. The case for never saying it aloud, and what to say in its place.

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Patterns · Preparation

Why Does Everyone Believe Them?

He cried, and your aunt put her arm around him. How emotion persuades, and what slowly works against it.

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