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An affair is a choice one person makes. It also has a history: in the couple, in the individual, in the company they keep. Reading that history is how people learn which doors to guard. Can you explain something without excusing it?
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Was It Something I Did?
The belief that a good marriage prevents affairs is nearly universal. The research does not support it.
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How Did We Get Here?
To explain an affair is not to excuse it. Three maps for reading a relationship backwards.
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