Unfinished Goodbyes

Worksheets · Worksheet 4

Telling Children the Truth

Children usually sense when something is being hidden, and secrets frighten them more than the truth. This sheet helps you prepare a short, honest explanation for a child.

About 15 minutes · Goes with Guide 2: Making Sense When There Are No Answers

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1Prepare your words

Keep it short and simple. Leave out frightening details. The card fills itself as you type.

My words for ______

______

______

______

You can ask me anything, any time.

2Questions they might ask

Write the questions you expect, and your honest answers. “I do not know” is an honest answer.

3Other adults who can help

Not knowing is hard for a child. Being lied to is harder. A short, true answer is a gift.

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