Carrying It

Worksheets · Worksheet 10

Letting a Feeling In

Some feelings seem as if they should not be there: loneliness, envy, relief, anger at the one who died. Fighting them adds a second struggle. This sheet practises a gentler response.

About 15 minutes · Goes with Guide 6: Living Alongside Your Loss

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1Three feelings, three new scripts

The first strip has an example. For each feeling, ask what it needs, then write words you could say to yourself instead of a scolding.

2Both, and

Two feelings can sit side by side. One does not cancel the other.

Today I felt and .

Today I felt and .

Today I felt and .

You do not have to accept what happened. You can let in what you feel about it.

Inat Therapy · Anahita Tanwar, Clinical Psychologist · online sessions across India

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