Carrying It

Worksheets · Worksheet 7

Decisions in My Own Time

Relatives may push you to decide things quickly. Most decisions in grief have no deadline. This sheet uses a simple test: imagine doing it tomorrow. If your stomach turns, it is not time yet.

About 10 minutes · Goes with Guide 5: When Other People Make It Harder

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1Add the decisions people are asking about

2Sort them

Tap a decision to move it to the next column. Tap the small cross to remove it.

Not yet

My stomach turns

Not sure

I feel mixed

I could do this

It feels possible

3Real deadlines

Someone else’s discomfort is not your deadline.

Inat Therapy · Anahita Tanwar, Clinical Psychologist · online sessions across India

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