Carrying It

Worksheets · Worksheet 5

My Plan for Hard Moments

Panic and waves of grief do not wait for a good time. A plan made while you are calm is much easier to follow when you are not.

About 15 minutes · Goes with Guide 3: When It All Feels Too Big

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1Practise the long out-breath

Follow the circle: in for four, out for six. One minute is enough.

Ready when you are

2Give your mind a dull job

Try all three now, so you know how it feels before you need it.

3My calm picture

Choose one picture you can go to every time a hard image comes.

4If a wave hits in public

5If a bad dream wakes me

Keep this list somewhere you can see it at night.

Turning away from a feeling you cannot hold right now is not running away. You can come back to it when you are ready.

Inat Therapy · Anahita Tanwar, Clinical Psychologist · online sessions across India

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