Worksheets · Worksheet 5
My Plan for Hard Moments
Panic and waves of grief do not wait for a good time. A plan made while you are calm is much easier to follow when you are not.
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1Practise the long out-breath
Follow the circle: in for four, out for six. One minute is enough.
Ready when you are
2Give your mind a dull job
Try all three now, so you know how it feels before you need it.
3My calm picture
Choose one picture you can go to every time a hard image comes.
4If a wave hits in public
5If a bad dream wakes me
Keep this list somewhere you can see it at night.
Turning away from a feeling you cannot hold right now is not running away. You can come back to it when you are ready.