Inheritance
You did not invent the way you fight. You learned it at a kitchen table, long before you met your partner. What were you handed, and what will you pass on?
Reactivity · Inheritance
Who Is Speaking When You Lose It?
You promised yourself you would stay calm. Then a voice you know too well came out of your mouth.
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Whose Marriage Are You Living In?
A daughter flinches, and a father recognises the flinch. How a childhood gets into a marriage, and how it stops.
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Why Is It So Hard to Ask for a Hug?
Strong at work, sulking at home. The need underneath the silence, and the ten words that replace it.
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