Reactivity
There is a moment in most arguments when you stop being yourself. The voice rises, or the shutters come down, and afterwards you hardly recognise who that was. Who takes over when you are triggered, and how do you take the reins back?
Reactivity · Inheritance
Who Is Speaking When You Lose It?
You promised yourself you would stay calm. Then a voice you know too well came out of your mouth.
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Why Do You Keep Having the Same Fight?
The subject changes. The script does not. What is going on when two cartoons argue for nine years.
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